Just when she thought she was “done with dating,” Alexis Lombardi’s life took a sudden turn.
She had relocated to Alabama from Georgia, taking a job at Anniston Orthopaedics as a surgery tech. “I loved my job,” she said. “I enjoyed patient care and working in the operating room.”
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