Paul challenged the church to be authentic for Jesus. He expects us to be obedient to him. We need to look at our hearts and love others despite all they have done to us. We need to forgive to win others for Christ. Never forget that we are not owed anything from anyone, especially God.
The world has begun to see many Christians as dirt. They see us in our lives, on the street, in our jobs, and hear us point out others flaws and offer reminders for them - all without looking in the mirror. As the world lives out of control, why should they stop to respond? You don’t offer a reason.
It is fact that winning a child in VBS gets 25% of families. Winning a mother gets 45%. If you win a father to Christ, you will get 95% of the family in church. Your faith, your service, your walk will lead men to God.
Extreme servant hood is going to involve all of you! Jesus will brace you when you fall as long as you believe in him and have faith. Ask yourself, am I extreme or just comfortable?