TIME
by JohnBagwell
 Faith & Family
May 20, 2013 | 207 views |  0 comments | 3 3 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink

One word.

A tremendous amount of power and significance behind it.

The last few weeks I've not had much TIME to do anything more than work, study, work some more, and try to find TIME for family in there somewhere.  As the weeks of my studies drew to a close, TIME became more and more of a precious commodity because I seemed to have less and less TIME to get anything critically important done.  All things worked out though.  Barely.

March 14th was my daughter's ten-year-old birthday.  Every year on each of my daughter's birthdays, starting back when they were five years old, I began taking them out for an all-day father-daughter date.  Not this year.  I finally did get around to taking my oldest out on that father-daughter date - over two months later.  There just wasn't enough TIME on her birthday.  Maybe things didn't work out so well after all.

We had fun, but she noticed the difference.  She had counted the days.  She had counted the TIME that had elapsed between when we were supposed to go out on the date, and the day we actually went.

Its my fault.  I had no idea the classes would be so taxing.  Working a full-TIME job and trying to hold onto a part-TIME job to make ends meet certainly strained any free TIME as well because of my class load.  Seems to be an all-too common complaint.  I just don't seem to have enough TIME.

While talking with my daughter over some serious issues, one of the things that came up is TIME.  She can tend to get frustrated with her younger sister.  My youngest seems to pick the wrong TIME to want to be around my oldest who really would like to have some TIME to herself.  That's when I told her, what her younger sister really wants from her is some TIME.

When someone calls your name, they are asking for your TIME.  When someone calls you on the phone, they are asking for your TIME.  When you get an email, a letter, or someone tries to get your attention, what they are asking you for is your TIME.  It is up to you to chose whether or not to give some TIME to them or not. 

Some people take our TIME without asking and we can get frustrated with them.  The person who seems to never stop talking, the car that sits on a green light, the lines we wait in, the constant grab of advertising, all are trying to wrest from us what we really do not wish to give in those moments . . . our TIME.

TIME, it turns out, happens to be one of the most precious things you can give - if you really give it.  When we truly give someone our TIME, we slow down for them, turn to face them, actively listen and engage them, and give them our full attention.  The gift of TIME is a wonderful thing when given freely.  When you give the gift of TIME, you are telling someone that your TIME now belongs to them to use in any way they wish.  Because it is theirs, they can do anything they want with it, and giving your TIME to them communicates that they are important to you.  Not giving your TIME can communicate the opposite as well.  TIME is a powerful thing that way.

Who gets your TIME?  If you were at the end of your life, is there anything, or anyone you might wish you had not given your TIME?  Are there any blocks of TIME wasted, spent, or otherwise given to people or things that really did not matter?  What would you do if you could get that TIME back?

Alas, you cannot get TIME back.  You only have whatever TIME you have left. 

TIME, you see, is very limited.

Today, who will get your TIME?
George Will: The loss of trust
May 20, 2013 | 432 views |  0 comments | 3 3 recommendations | email to a friend | print
WASHINGTON — Leaving aside the seriousness of lawlessness, and the corruption of our civic culture by the professionally pious, this past week has been amusing. There was the spectacle of advocates of an ever-larger regulatory government expressing shock about such government's large capacity for misbehavior. And, entertainingly, the answer to the question "Will Barack Obama's scandals derail his second-term agenda?" was a question: What agenda? The scandals are interlocking and overlapping in ways that drain his authority. Everything he advocates requires Americans to lavish on government something his administration, and big government generally, undermines — trust. Liberalism's agenda has been constant since long before liberals, having given their name a bad name, stopped calling themselves liberals and resumed calling themselves progressives, which they will call themselves until they finish giving that name a bad name. The agenda always is: Concentrate more power in Washington, more Washington power in the executive branch and more executive power in agencies run by experts. Then trust the experts to be disinterested and prudent with their myriad intrusions into, and minute regulations of, Americans' lives. Obama's presidency may yet be, on balance, a net plus for the public good if it shatters American's trust in the regulatory state's motives. Now, regarding Obama's second-term agenda. His re-election theme — re-elect me because I am not Mitt Romney — yielded a meager mandate, and he used tactics that are now draining the legitimacy an election is supposed to confer. One tactic was to misrepresent the Benghazi attack lest it undermine his narrative about taming terrorism. Does anyone think the administration's purpose in manufacturing 12 iterations of the talking points was to make them more accurate? Another tactic was using the "federal machinery to screw our political enemies." The words are from a 1971 memo by the then-White House counsel, John Dean, whose spirit still resides where he worked prior to prison. Congress may contain some Democrats who owed their 2012 election to the IRS' suppression of conservative political advocacy. Obama's supposed "trifecta" of scandals — Benghazi, the IRS, and the seizure of Associated Press phone records — neglects some. A fourth scandal is power being wielded by executive branch officials (at the National Labor Relations Board and the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau) illegally installed in office by presidential recess appointments made when the Senate was not in recess. A fifth might be Secretary of Health and Human Services Kathleen Sebelius soliciting, from corporations in industries HHS regulates, funds to replace some that Congress refused to appropriate. The money is to be spent by nonprofit — which does not mean nonpolitical — entities. The funds are to educate Americans about, which might mean (consider the administration's Benghazi and IRS behaviors) propagandize in favor of, Obamacare and to enroll people in its provisions. The experienced (former governor, former secretary of education, 10 years in the Senate) and temperate Lamar Alexander, R-Tenn., compares this to the Iran-contra scandal, wherein the Reagan administration raised private funds to do what Congress had refused to do — finance the insurgency against Nicaragua's government. Obama's incredibly shrinking presidency is a reminder that politics is a transactional business, trust is the currency of the transactions, and the currency has been debased. For example: Obama says: Trust me, I do not advocate universal preschool simply to swell the ranks of unionized, dues-paying, Democrat-funding teachers. Trust me, I know something not known by the social scientists who say the benefits of such preschool are small and evanescent. Obama says: Trust me, the science of global warming is settled. And trust me that, although my plans to combat global warming, whenever the inexplicable 16-year pause of it ends, would vastly expand government's regulatory powers, as chief executive I guarantee that these powers will be used justly. Obama says: Trust me, although I am head of the executive branch, I am not responsible for the IRS portion of this branch. Obama says: Trust me, my desire to overturn a Supreme Court opinion (Citizens United) that expanded First Amendment protection of political speech, and my desire to "seriously consider" amending the First Amendment to expand the government's power to regulate the quantity, content and timing of political advocacy, should be untainted by what the IRS did to suppress advocacy by my opponents. Because Obama's entire agenda involves enlarging government's role in allocating wealth and opportunity, the agenda now depends on convincing Americans to trust him, not their lying eyes. In the fourth month of his second term, it is already too late for that. George Will writes for The Washington Post. Email: georgewill@washpost.com.
Gary Sinise and the Lt. Dan Band perform a benefit concert as part of their Building for America's Bravest tour for Sgt. Ben Tomlinson Sunday at Jacksonville State University. The benefit is a partnership program between the Gary Sinise Foundation and the Tunnel to Towers Foundation that constructs customized smart homes for our nation's most severely wounded servicemen. (Photo by Trent Penny/The Anniston Star)
Gary Sinise and the Lt. Dan Band perform a benefit concert as part of their Building for America's Bravest tour for Sgt. Ben Tomlinson Sunday at Jacksonville State University. The benefit is a partnership program between the Gary Sinise Foundation and the Tunnel to Towers Foundation that constructs customized smart homes for our nation's most severely wounded servicemen. (Photo by Trent Penny/The Anniston Star)
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Diners toast Sunday alcohol sales in Anniston
by Laura Camper
lcamper@annistonstar.com
May 19, 2013 | 1902 views |  0 comments | 4 4 recommendations | email to a friend | print
Diners at the Peerless in Anniston turned out in force to sip in celebration of Anniston's new law permitting the sale of alcohol on Sundays. (Photo by Trent Penny/The Anniston Star)
Diners at the Peerless in Anniston turned out in force to sip in celebration of Anniston's new law permitting the sale of alcohol on Sundays. (Photo by Trent Penny/The Anniston Star)
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Customers flocked to the Peerless Grille Sunday for their first ever chance to buy a bloody mary or a beer, with their Sunday lunch in Anniston. “As soon as we turned on the sign and opened up the doors people started coming in,” said Kristy Farmer, owner of the restaurant. That doesn’t generally happen, she said. The restaurant usually doesn’t open on Sundays but decided to give it a try after the city of Anniston legalized Sunday alcohol sales, Farmer said. Diners and shoppers across Anniston took advantage Sunday of the first legal opportunity to raise a glass to the new law, approved by the City Council on Tuesday after winning approval to do so from the Legislature this spring. Farmer advertised specials on bloody marys and other mixed drinks and hired some more staff to cover the extra hours. She believes the rush may be because of the novelty of Sunday sales. But she has confidence that the people will keep coming and as long as they do, the Peerless will stay open on Sundays, she said. The customers who would talk to a reporter were overwhelmingly supportive of the new law. Jean Ann and Jerry Oglesby of Anniston came in for lunch just because of the new law and were enjoying a drink with their meals. “We’re here because we can be,” Jean Ann Oglesby said. They both applauded the move by the City Council to allow the sales as a revenue generator for local businesses. It will keep Annistonians from going to Birmingham or Atlanta for Sunday brunch, they said. Anniston resident Kevin Pate, who was enjoying a beer with his lunch one booth down from the Oglesbys, said the availability of the drink did influence where he ate Sunday. He “probably would have gone to Oxford,” without the new law, Pate said. Valerie Naylor and Mark Dulkan of North Carolina were not drinking alcohol with their lunch but still thought the decision by the City Council was a good one. Naylor, who is an independent contractor working on the Coldwater Mountain Bike Trails, said she believes the move would help revitalize the city. She said while Interstate 20 helped Oxford bring in strip malls and big box stores, Anniston with its still-intact historic charm, newly opened downtown brewery the mountain biking trails will bring in tourists who will spend money. A new ordinance to limit public smoking and the Sunday alcohol sales law will both help keep them coming back, Naylor and Dulkan said. “With the trails, you’ve got mountain bikers coming in and they’re going to want a beer after their ride,” Dulkan said. Some locals were out on a Sunday just to celebrate the new ordinance. Jimmie Thompson and Jarred Driggers both of Anniston sat side by side at the Peerless’ bar enjoying drinks with their lunch. Thompson said he goes out for lunch with his family every Sunday, but today headed to the Peerless with friends so that he could get his mimosa and meal. “I wanted to come and celebrate,” Thompson said. “To promote this in spirit.” Driggers said he usually stays home on Sundays and orders pizza. He has a fully-stocked bar, dartboard and television at home, Driggers said. But with the new ordinance, he decided to head to the Peerless for lunch. “I got up at 11 o’clock on a Sunday morning to come here and have a drink,” Driggers said. At the Classic on Noble restaurant, the buffet drew a crowd just as it always does, said owner Cathy Mashburn. The restaurant wasn’t advertising alcohol sales, but filling orders if it got one, she said. By 12:30 p.m. only one table had ordered any liquor, she said, adding there were still a couple hours to go before closing. Next week though, the restaurant will have specials on mimosas and bloody marys at the brunch. “We wanted to sort of get a feel for it,” Mashburn said. Staff writer Laura Camper: 256-235-3545. On Twitter @LCamper_Star.
Local golf: Wilfred Glabraith Innovational results
by Al Muskewitz
amuskewitz@annistonstar.com
May 19, 2013 | 539 views |  0 comments | 6 6 recommendations | email to a friend | print
Wilfred Galbraith Invitational, at Anniston Country Club

Championship A flight Casey O’Toole 68-68—136 Jeff Champion 69-70—139 Freeman Fite 69-73—142 Ott Chandler 67-76—143 David Sanders 70-75—145 Jaylon Ellison 70-75—145 Matt Miller 71-74—145 Dan Griffin 71-74—145 Rob Svenson 71-78—149 Jake Nichols 71-79—150 Gary Wilborn 70-WD Championship B flight Jeremy McGatha 73-68—141 Ty Cole 73-69—142 Cypress Hathorn 72-73—145 Richard Turner 72-75—147 Lance Evans 73-74—147 Daniel Black 74-76—150 Matt Rogers 74-77—151 Frank Brady 74-77—151 Dan McClellan 73-85—158 Cole McNeal 73-86—159 Championship C flight Chip Howell 75-71—146 Gary Wigington 75-72—147 Dalton Chandler 76-72—148 Janson Wilborn 77-73—150 Chris Weaver 76-76—152 Clay Calkins 77-78—155 Randy Lipscomb 76-80—156 Adrian Geeting 75-81—156 Dustin Travis 76-80—156 Brian Woodfin 77-WD First flight Billy Thompson 71 Eric Messer 73 Lewis Lecroy 74 Scott Murphree 74 Bobby Dillon 75 Grant Hockman 76 Kenny Wright 78 Jonathon Pate 78 Michael Pinson 79 Clint Compton 83 Benji Turley 84 Tim Vernon 86 Second flight Tim Steward 76 Kenneth Patterson 77 Chandler Allen 77 Jeff Noah 77 Tyler Putnam 78 Layton Bussey 80 Allen Mangham 80 Chandler Wilborn 82 Shane Chappell 89 Scott Eaton 88 Third flight Kyle Daugherty 76 Luke Armstrong 78 Timmy Woodard 83 Greg Logan 84 Jerry Kemp 87 Ryan Huff 87 David Coffey 87 Brian Tucker 89 Rob Riddle 90 James Ramey 95 Fourth flight Kenny Fulmer 80 Guice Potter IV 82 Ken Howell 83 Chase Thomas 84 Bill Brom 85 Steve Taylor 88 Ross Svenson 90 Eric Stringer 92 Stuart Rice 92 Fifth flight Danny Smith 80 Gordon Stewart 82 Don Whitlow 89 Kelly Rogers 89 Heath Waldrop 89 Austin Minter 92 Brad Williams 93 Jimmy Flowers 94 Jimmy Jackson 94 Chance Harris 100 Calhoun County Golf Tour points standings Ott Chandler 800 Jaylon Ellison 700 Jeremy McGatha 635 Gary Wigington 555 Dan Griffin 500 Dalton Chandler 497.5 Matt Miller 497.5 Daniel Black 490 Frank Brady 477.5 Chip Howell 470 Matt Rogers 465 Billy Thompson 447.5 Adrian Geeting 437.5 Grant Hockman 435 Janson Wilborn 387.5 Dan McClellan 362.5 Tim Steward 325 Gary Wilborn 315 Nick Pollard 302.5 Benji Turley 295 Andrew Brooks 292.5 Rob Riddle 262.5 Clay Calkins 252.5 Mark Durden 250 Timmy Woodard 247.5 Doug East 242.5 Dustin Travis 232.5 Shane Chappell 227.5 Lance Evans 227.5 Lewis Lecroy 195 Jerry Kemp 181.25 Cole McNeal 175 Kelly Rogers 172.5 Chandler Wilborn 165 Austin Minter 155 Kenny Wright 148.75 Scott Eaton 145 Danny Smith 143.75 Ryan Huff 142.5 Chris Hubbard 107.5 David Martin 107.5 Stuart Rice 100 Landon Straub 77.5 T.J. McGatha 65 Al Muskewitz 53.75 Ethyn Roberts 50 Brandon Roberts 50
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